It's rare that I see the Little House in winter. Come November, it's too cold and raw for a house made of balsa wood, and this fall, Fauxhawk and I did the honors in locking it up, neat as a pin, until spring.
My father, now confined to bed, frets constantly about the house. We have always taken the mid-winter trip together, camping indoors without water and happily warming ourselves by a fire of good hard wood that burns hot. But now, unable to check on the house, he imagines giant tsunamis sweaping it away, raccoons nesting in the chimney, mice shredding the insulation, salt winds blighting the fruit trees, the car battery dying from disuse. As he grows weaker and more faint, the calamities become increasingly apocolyptic. I'll go and take care of things, I reassure him. Don't you worry.
Built for the softness of summer, it is not a sturdy house, but it has never done us wrong. When Fauxhawk and I arrive, it's cold and dark and the air smells briney. Everything is just as we left it months ago – jaunty and cheerful, even in snow.
In the morning, the sky is streaked with crepuscular rays and the snow is blindingly bright. We are greeted by a single snowdrop, bowing under the weight of a tiny icicle. The holly bush, brought so many years ago by the birds, is the lone splash of color. Aside from a few brazen deer, there are few signs of wildlife, but I fill pinecones with peanut butter and put them on the wood pile, just in case the blue jays need a mid-afternoon snack.
When I was a girl, the only people who stayed through the winter were alcoholics and recluses; our two neighbors were reclusive alcoholics who steadily drank themselves to death over the course of several lonely Februaries. But to our surprise, the beach was dotted with footprints, some human, some dog.
I trust the ocean less and less as I get older - I have a healthy fear of the riptide, of waves stirred-up and bottle green. We've heard too many tragic stories of bravado to treat it lightly.
I call my father to report that all is well, that I have stacked the wood pile, checked for leaks, swept the fireplace, and pruned the fruit trees. My heart bursts with pride and happiness that there is some small thing I can do to bring him comfort.
Bring me some cherry boughs, he says. And so I do: armfuls of Quanzan and Fuji cherries, boughs of crabapples lined with fat little buds. Arranged in giant vases around his chaise, the bare branches possess a kind of latent beauty, an extravagant display of optimism at a time when there is no hope.
I bring some home to Brooklyn. They remind me that there is something wonderful to look forward to - a respite from the moments of sadness and helplessness I so often feel these days.
Since I've been home, I've filled the apartment with spring. I regularly spend my last three dollars on a bouquet of daffodils or a bundle of hyacinths. Flowers are, for me, a necessity – I'd rather go without to have a jaunty, fragrant nosegay. Yesterday the jasmine I bought at Trader Joe's burst into bloom, sending me into a fit of ecstasy. Its perfume is incredibly redolent, though at times it smells strangely of...cat shit. I have this problem with paperwhites, too. I can't figure it out.
My orchid has been frustratingly dormant for 18 months, but suddenly decided to please me. Look at all those buds! A reward for almost total neglect. I can only hope that all the people and things I've neglected over the last year are as forgiving.
Woke up to New York City's first snow. Flurries everywhere - finally, the season has turned. And so has my mood. After a busy weekend catching up with people I've been neglecting, I feel renewed and more like myself. Reconnecting with friends and family and having a trip to look forward to has helped me break through a rather protracted funk - and has emphasized that it's essential to always have something lovely planned, even if it's modest. Thank you all for your words of encouragement - you have been so kind. And to Sasha: "Thank you for your champagne... I drank it and I was gayer."
Fauxhawk broke out the special fire retardant wood sold at the deli at extortionate prices - the whole apartment smelled like smoked sausage as the logs sizzled disappointingly in the fireplace. We're contemplating ordering a quarter of a cord of wood from a nice Amish person with a pack mule that can handle five flights of stairs.
I've been cooking up a storm lately, mostly from How to Roast a Lamb, a cookbook that offers a subtle twist on Greek cuisine without being too cute. We've had wonderful and inspired avgolemono soup, butterflied and stuffed lamb, herbed meatballs, and a few very tasty salads. Winter is about cooking for me - and also about overindulging. We have to be careful to rein it in or we'll pop before New Year's is upon us.
My niece Noodle had her eighth birthday this weekend. She wanted jeggings. I found this vaguely depressing, mostly because I hate that word and knew I would be forced to say it over and over again as I scoured my neighborhood for jean leggings.
"Excuse me, do you have JEGGINGS?"
"Why no, we don't have JEGGINGS."
"Do you know where I can find JEGGINGS?"
"Try XYZ - they might have JEGGINGS."
Repeat about 450 times until I finally found a source and bought them, grudgingly. Just hearing her squeal "JEGGINGZZZZZZZZ!" made it all worthwhile.
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